About Widowers
A dating site for widows and widowers
Made for widowed people in the U.S. who are ready to meet someone new, at their own pace.
- Free to join
- Free ID verification
- Support on call 24/7
Our mission
To help you find love by connecting you with other like-minded singles, with respect and genuineness central to everything we do.
Who Widowers is for
Widowers is made for widowed people across the U.S. If you have lost a spouse and feel ready for companionship or a new relationship, you can meet someone here. Everyone starts on a free membership, and you set the pace.
Community rules
A few simple rules keep the community welcoming for everyone.
Adults only
This site is strictly 18+.
Genuine members only
We have protection measures in place to keep out fake profiles and help you meet genuine members. Members may not advertise goods or services.
Be kind
Treat others online the way you want to be treated. Be courteous in messages, chat rooms and comments. If someone approaches you who isn't your type, you can let them down respectfully.
Be tolerant
Members come from all backgrounds and experiences, and this is an inclusive space. Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism and any other form of discrimination or hate speech are not allowed.
Be safe
We do our best to keep your space safe, but sometimes people with bad intentions slip through. Keep early conversations on the site so they can be monitored. Never share your bank details with anyone, and don't send money or gift cards.
Be discreet
Not everyone here wants to be recognized in the real world, so please respect people's privacy. If you see another member in public, only approach them if they have clearly given you their consent.
Respect boundaries
Harassment is not tolerated: if someone says no, it's time to move on. Respect people's comfort zones when moving conversations forward, and ask for consent before sharing images.
Follow the law
Messages or media about illegal activity are not allowed, including (but not limited to) depictions of violence, drugs, or related paraphernalia.
Questions
How much does it cost?
Joining is free. Everyone starts on a free membership. You can browse profiles, like and match, use the Activity Feed and Spaces, and send and receive messages, with some limits. VIP and VIP+ are optional upgrades.
How private is it?
Your real name and email are not shown publicly, and other members see only your nearest town or city. You control what you share.
Will you fill my inbox with spam?
No. Our email systems are SenderScore certified. We only notify you of profile activity, and you can opt out.
What can I do on the site?
You can browse profiles, chat with members through messages and comments, and read blogs to get to know people better.